Each one of us could probably use some pointers in the “seduction” department. Even the smoothest of the smooth could use a lesson or two in how to really turn their woman on and get her to the point where she at least initiates sex every once in a while or actually becomes somewhat aggressive in letting her wants, needs and desires be known.
Chances are if you have been in your relationship for a while the newness has worn off and typically the bedroom is the first place that all of this begins to really show up. You become an “old married couple” that rarely has sex and even when it does happen it isn’t all that great.
If you are finding yourself asking your wife or girlfriend to have sex with you or even bordering on begging her to be intimate then you have a problem. The big problem is that many times once sexual intimacy is gone some women go looking elsewhere for that passion and excitement that she once had with you. And with the state of the internet these days it is very easy for a woman to find a willing partner for some exciting rendezvous to spice up her life a little bit.
The good news is that it is very easy to become a seduction master and give her everything that she needs right at home. This is what she really wants, after all. Yes, it really is you that she wants and with a little time and some homework on your part you can change things around and have her asking you for sex for a change.
It is very well known that women typically are very romantic creatures and passionate by nature. Look at the types of movies they like to watch, meaning “chick flicks”, and the novels that they read. Yes, the ones with pictures of bear chested men on the front embracing heaving bosomed young women. In all of these novels and movies there is passion and seduction and the guy always gets the girl at least for a little while. In all of these movies and books your wife or girlfriend is the woman in the movie and you are the hero who gets the woman…at least this is how she wishes things were.
Now, when you plop yourself into bed, tap her on the shoulder and say “you in the mood?” this immediately kills any sort of mood that she might be in. The more that you do this the more you are repeating this negative and perpetuating this pattern of rejection that the two of you have grown accustomed to. This is only one way in which you are killing the passion and defeating any sort of “seduction” techniques that you might actually try. That’s right….it doesn’t matter if you served her a candlelit dinner, led her to a bubble bath on a path of rose petals…if you plop your butt into bed and tap her on the shoulder and ask her after all that if she’s in the mood, you will have just killed the mood. Does this make sense?
So what does work? Well, remove the negative first of all…never do that again. Never repeat that pattern again, ok? And for starters, you can start small. By this I mean, find little things to compliment her on. If she has lost some weight, tell her. If she cooks you a good meal, tell her how much you appreciate how she cooks for you. If she does your laundry, tell her that even though you don’t tell her thank you enough that you really do appreciate all that she does for you and that if it wasn’t for her you would have all pink clothes. Reach out and hold her hand while you’re driving….hold her hand while you’re watching TV together….or even better, shut the TV off and talk with her. No, I take that back…listen to her. Ask her how she is and what’s going on with her family or her work.
All of this is just for starters but the key to all of this is not to expect anything. Don’t expect her to just come to life all of the sudden and want to have sex with you. Of course, once you stop all the negative things related to your usual sexual cycle of rejection and you begin to replace them with some positive things like touching and talking and an admiration of her as a woman, your chances of stumbling across something that actually does turn her on increases.
That’s right…there are things that turn her on. There are probably many things that turn her on and when you do come across one make a note so you don’t forget. Yes, before long there are going to be lots of things that you will find that turn her on. It could be a particular movie. It could be you dressed in a suit. It could be you working on the car. It could be you cooking. You will find that you will be able to use a combination of these things in addition to other techniques make you the seduction master in her life.
For more tips and tricks go to the “Super Seduction” Homepage and find out how you can hone your skills and win her heart. You will learn very quickly the secrets needed to effectively and easily seduce your wife or girlfriend and make her wanting you more.
Chances are if you have been in your relationship for a while the newness has worn off and typically the bedroom is the first place that all of this begins to really show up. You become an “old married couple” that rarely has sex and even when it does happen it isn’t all that great.
If you are finding yourself asking your wife or girlfriend to have sex with you or even bordering on begging her to be intimate then you have a problem. The big problem is that many times once sexual intimacy is gone some women go looking elsewhere for that passion and excitement that she once had with you. And with the state of the internet these days it is very easy for a woman to find a willing partner for some exciting rendezvous to spice up her life a little bit.
The good news is that it is very easy to become a seduction master and give her everything that she needs right at home. This is what she really wants, after all. Yes, it really is you that she wants and with a little time and some homework on your part you can change things around and have her asking you for sex for a change.
It is very well known that women typically are very romantic creatures and passionate by nature. Look at the types of movies they like to watch, meaning “chick flicks”, and the novels that they read. Yes, the ones with pictures of bear chested men on the front embracing heaving bosomed young women. In all of these novels and movies there is passion and seduction and the guy always gets the girl at least for a little while. In all of these movies and books your wife or girlfriend is the woman in the movie and you are the hero who gets the woman…at least this is how she wishes things were.
Now, when you plop yourself into bed, tap her on the shoulder and say “you in the mood?” this immediately kills any sort of mood that she might be in. The more that you do this the more you are repeating this negative and perpetuating this pattern of rejection that the two of you have grown accustomed to. This is only one way in which you are killing the passion and defeating any sort of “seduction” techniques that you might actually try. That’s right….it doesn’t matter if you served her a candlelit dinner, led her to a bubble bath on a path of rose petals…if you plop your butt into bed and tap her on the shoulder and ask her after all that if she’s in the mood, you will have just killed the mood. Does this make sense?
So what does work? Well, remove the negative first of all…never do that again. Never repeat that pattern again, ok? And for starters, you can start small. By this I mean, find little things to compliment her on. If she has lost some weight, tell her. If she cooks you a good meal, tell her how much you appreciate how she cooks for you. If she does your laundry, tell her that even though you don’t tell her thank you enough that you really do appreciate all that she does for you and that if it wasn’t for her you would have all pink clothes. Reach out and hold her hand while you’re driving….hold her hand while you’re watching TV together….or even better, shut the TV off and talk with her. No, I take that back…listen to her. Ask her how she is and what’s going on with her family or her work.
All of this is just for starters but the key to all of this is not to expect anything. Don’t expect her to just come to life all of the sudden and want to have sex with you. Of course, once you stop all the negative things related to your usual sexual cycle of rejection and you begin to replace them with some positive things like touching and talking and an admiration of her as a woman, your chances of stumbling across something that actually does turn her on increases.
That’s right…there are things that turn her on. There are probably many things that turn her on and when you do come across one make a note so you don’t forget. Yes, before long there are going to be lots of things that you will find that turn her on. It could be a particular movie. It could be you dressed in a suit. It could be you working on the car. It could be you cooking. You will find that you will be able to use a combination of these things in addition to other techniques make you the seduction master in her life.
For more tips and tricks go to the “Super Seduction” Homepage and find out how you can hone your skills and win her heart. You will learn very quickly the secrets needed to effectively and easily seduce your wife or girlfriend and make her wanting you more.
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